Singles & Dating

Being single is something fun for it, becoz u are a freeman / freewomen~

but once u date someone out, mean u are ready for the open relationship~
so, what it gonna be for ur partner to find out ?

getting serious into a relationship, being understanding about ur partner attitude and think is really important, what does he/she like, thing to do, act, lifestyle,way of think and talk, you must able to live with their life views.

before i start the thing i want to write out, let us talk something about what happen today, couple aren't last long for some reason, or divorce for few year marriage~ does it really should happen to everyone (well, sometime thing are unable to control) but at least you still can put effort to avoid it happen!

static shown nowadays many couple / husband-wife get breakup/ divorce <--especially this would you want to be the next victim? here, i would state out some of the idea , YOU should asked before really get into "trouble" :D What are your religious views?
ppl get emotionally when talk about sensitive issue such as religion, make sure you can accept or respect it! this is very important

Do you believe in a God?
do you? me do, most people do, if you are not, stop making excuse or assumption or shit reason

What are your views about an afterlife?
this not really important, but it part of the religion matter

How should we agree to handle arguments?
get emotional, not happy about it, this is the toughest part when couple fighting~would you be the weakest one to allowing and forget / forgive your partner?

If you're mad about something how will you let me know?
expressing feeling is easy, due to people ego or selfish, they tend to keep inside, talk it out wont embarrassed you, it help you to solve/endure the matter

If you're having problems would you talk it out or keep it inside?
would you? or you just feel it not necessary? remind, keeping inside won't settle the issue, take it out and solve it!

Do you like sharing your feelings?
feeling..sometime it hard to express, but for your partner, they do understand

What are your views about same sex friends?
remember, every people has different view of everything, this is important to know would he/she can accept your friends?

How do you feel about ex-lovers being friends?
ex-lovers being a friends is some type of enemy for your new lover, so, ask and explain clearly!

How important is a girl's or guy's night out?
does he/she would get jealous about it? if do, this is quite a hard stage to maintain! it 21century!

Who should hold the main financial responsibility in a marriage?
BOTH! mainly guy would do, but this is not an old trend thinking, both must work it out!

Should a wife stay home with kids?
certain people think they should, well, it better to be~

What are your views about stay-at-home dads?
i bet malaysia here not much girl would accept a guy become a nanny?

How would you feel about women who make more money than men?
some people think it was absolutely nothing about it, well, would you feel incapable comparing?

What are your views towards handling money?
important, money is not everything, it almost all the of it

Do you feel you should save everything?
save for ur partner/ family will do, save little for yourself too

Do you feel you should splurge a little?
splurge = spend extravagantly or wastefully / luxury
if you rich, of cause you wont bother about this, but make a gift for yourself very once awhile

How would you rate your ability to handle money?
easy money = easy spending, are you a person that very stable?

How would you handle a debt problem?
debt, bet every people does own debt, plan careful

What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work?
this word is something really wish not to happen, but it does happen too... could you lift it the burden or just run away?

What would you do if your partner face long-term unemployment?
this is sick, either he/she lazy or born to be feed.

What would you expect from that partner?
expect come in 2 thing, expect she/he "need" or "wanted"

Would you have an abortion?
remember, it illegal in malaysia, but it still can be done under some procedure

What are your views on abortion?
for me, it suck!

Do you want children?
nowadays many girl refuse to have child, so, ask them before you get her as your wife

How many children do you think a couple should have?
hey, it up to you, you can have 10 of it if you both not getting tired ...

How would you discipline your children?
family toughest JOB~ ask your old folk about it

Do you think couples should argue in front of their kids?
it not suppose to happen, this will give them a bad impression! remember not to do so!

Do you feel couples should have displays of affection in front of their kids?
displays of affection = such as kissing / hug in public
kissing shown love and care, it nothing really worry about it, just do "make love" in front of them!

What are your views on the educational system?
i won't know how to read or write without the education system!

How would you want your kids taught?
Public school, private school, home schooling, or other?

What do you feel about interracial couples?
both must INTERACTED! otherwise how to plan for the future?

How do you feel about same sex marriages?
for me, is awful, it not happen in malaysia (but there are a case happen too)

What are your views on age gap relationships (more than 10 years apart)?
people tend to say love is not about the age, but gap too far would be a problem too

How would you handle your children if they were involved in one of these types of relationships?
if they still young, advice and stop them, if they are mature enough to handle, shown them right advice / path

How would you handle your partner if they developed a problem such as gambling or alcohol?
this is serious, it should taught when they was kid, or otherwise it wont able to control in future

What would you do if your partner cheated on you?
don't do what appear in the newspaper, ask, solve, remember, forget and forgive ( not those serious case)

What are your life goals?
everyone has thier goals, would it effect your love one? let them know and together achieve it

What are your passions?
passion refer to innate or biologically driven emotion states, such as anger, greed, lust or bla bla bla....

If you had a million dollars how would you spend it?
a million not really much in this era now, spent wisely or keep it

Do you believe in marriage?
unless you want to alone

Do you believe you should only marry once?
jackpot hit one only in your life, but it happen to other for few time, get it?

What do you hope to gain from a marriage?
what is the thing you really need to do? yes, a happy and healthy family

What do you expect from a marriage partner?
expect nothing but love and understand of both

What do you feel is the purpose of a couple getting married?
well, what yours? not about because of trend style, it both agree to make a new generation for the future ( for the common sense)